“Jesus Is My Buddy”

There is a pattern that, sadly, I have noticed more and more lately — and that is irreverent, irresponsible, and disrespectful Christians. How’s that for an uplifting intro?=) I’m talking specifically about our attitude toward God. Here’s my point — Christ is a friend to us, but He is not our buddy. We can go to Him with anything, and for anything, and at any time, and we can approach the throne with confidence, but He is in no way our peer, and I think that’s often very hard for us to grasp. The balance in our relationship to God — between seeing Him as our friend, and seeing Him as our King and Lord — is very difficult for all of us at times.

I think that the tendency, especially today, is to become casual in our attitude toward God and in our worship of Him. It can be very difficult to really live out the balance in our relationship, between God as wanting to have a close personal relationship with us, and God as someone who is entirely other than anything we experience in this fallen world, and whose holiness is in stark contrast to our sinfulness and inadequacy, and who demands respect and reverence in our worship of Him.

I’m not positive it’s the same for generations older than me, but at least for people around my age and younger… I think it has a lot to do with the lack of this mixture of relationship in our human relationships. I’ll try to explain it better. I’ve always had people, growing up, who were friends to me, but were much older than me. And I knew that they were my friend, and I knew I could walk right up to them and ask them a question, or ask them for help, or just to talk to them. But I would never have called them my peer, or thought of them the same way I thought of one of my classmates. And I still have people like that — with whom I am very close, and I feel totally relaxed and comfortable with, but I have an immense amount of respect for them, and I would never venture to give them unsolicited advice on anything, or to act as though I was their peer in any way — because I’m not! And I think it’s important for us to remember that Christ is our King, as well as our friend. We are adopted into God’s family and can approach Him confidently as His children, but I think it’s paramount that we remember that we are also His servants. And we were once His enemies, and only by His great love, and power, and mercy, and incredible sacrifice, can we call Him “Father.” In the next few posts, We’re going to look at something Solomon says about our attitude in worship in Ecclesiastes chapter five.


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One Response to “Jesus Is My Buddy”

  1. Lynn Jensen says:

    Agreed, we have lost a healthy ‘fear’ / reverence of God. He is still GOD.

    When John, who was the disciple Jesus loved, saw Jesus: Rev 1:17 And when I saw Him, I FELL AT HIS FEET AS DEAD. But He laid His right hand on me, saying to me, “Do not be afraid; I am the First and the Last.


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